He too would spontaneously say "ENI TI O LE SE ALABARU L'OYINGBO, KO LE SE BI ADEGBORO L'OJA OBA" - this is a replica of the adage also in Yoruba land that says; "ÌSASÙN tabi IKOKO TI YIO J'ATA (OBE), IDI RE A KOKO GBONA". (A pot that wants to consume a palatable soup must have its bottom burnt or heated with fire first).

In Life, to endure is to achieve. No shortcut is sustainable. Wealth is built over time in a small bit but in a persistent way!!!!!! 
Our children must learn from this true-life story. They must shun the get-rich-quick syndrome that's affecting most youths today, many have entered into traps of human traffickers, sold into sex slaves, drugs, prostitution, and what have you, in desperation for get-rich-quick green pastures. Today, many are still being auctioned for sale in LIBYA. 

Sit your children down and teach them the meaning of the popular poem by J.F. Odunjo:

ISE NI OOGUN ISE (Work is the antidote for poverty)

Ise l’ogun ise
(Work is the antidote for poverty)

Mura s’ise ore mi
(Work hard, my friend)

Ise la fi n’deni giga
(Work/Labour is the major tool for elevation)

Bi a ko ba reni feyin ti
(If we do not have anyone to lean on)

Bi ole la’nri
(We appear indolent)

Bi a ko ba reni gbekele
(If we do not have anyone to support us)

A tera mo’se eni
(We simply work harder)

Iya re le lowo lowo
(Your mother might be rich)

Baba re le lesin lekan
(Your father may have a stable full of horses)

Bi o ba gbo’ju lewon
(If you rely on them)

O te tan ni mo so fun o
(You are close to shame and disgrace, I tell you)

Ohun ti a ko ba ji’ya fun,
(Whatever one does not work hard to earn)

Se kii le pe lowo;
(Usually does not last)

Ohun ti a ba fara sise fun,
(Whatever gain one seriously labours for)

Nii pe lowo eni.
(Usually lasts with one)

Apa lara
(Your arm is you relative )

Egunpa niyekan

(your elbow is your sibling)

B’aye ba n’fe o loni
(If the world loves you today)

Bi o ba lowo lowo
(If you have money)

Aye a ma fe o lola
(The world will still love you tomorrow)

Tabi ki o wa ni’po atata
(Or if you are in a prestigious position)

Aye a ma ye o si terin-terin
(The world will celebrate you with smiles)

Je k’o de’ni tin rago
(Wait till you become poor)

Aye a ma yinmu si o
(The world will grimace at you)

Eko si’nso ni d’oga
(Education also elevates one to higher positions)

Mura ki o ko dara dara
(Ensure that you acquire it well)

Bi o si r’opo eniyan
(And if you see a lot of people)

Ti won f’eko s’erin rinrin
(Making mockery of education with laughter)

Dakun ma f’ara we won
(Please do not emulate or keep their company)

Iya n’bo fun’omo ti ko gbon
(Suffering beckons for the unwise child)

Ekun n’be fun’omo to nsa kiri
(Tears are due for the truant child)

Ma f’owuro sere ore mi
(Do not toy with your early years)

Mura si’se ojo’nlo
(Work hard; time waits for no one).

Half a word is enough for the wise.